Durian Runtuh??!!

Dalam satu perbualan, Abah berkata aku beruntung kerana dapat suami yang bekeluarga besar. Yelah, aku berasal drp 3 orang adik –beradik. Dan sejak perginya Abang Sulung ke hadrat ilahi pada tahun pagi Jumaat, 27 Sya’ban 1424 ( 10 Okt 2002), kami tinggal 2 beradik. Suami pula mempunyai 9 adik-beradik. Bayangkan betapa meriahnya kalau dibandingkan dengan kami.

Tahun ini, keluarga sebelah aku dimeriahkan dengan kehadiran puteri kami, Nur Mawaddah. Bertambah meriah di sebelah suami dengan kehadiran 2 lagi cucu kesayangan. Sebulan setengah setelah Mawaddah dilahirkan, Kakak Ipar sulung melahirkan seorang putera, Mohd Zain Hidayat. Dan kelmarin, adik ipar selamat melahirkan juga seorang putera yang masih belum diberi nama secara rasminya. Tahniah buat Yati & Mie. Akhirnya selamat semua dilahirkan setelah overdue lebih seminggu. Tahun lepas keluarga pihak suami bertambah 2 orang cucu & tahun ini pula 3 orang cucu. Meriah kan? Total anak menakan=9 dalam tempoh 6 tahun. Tahun depan bakalnya ada lagi yang lahir. Yang pastinya bukan aku la! Ihiks :p

Nampaknya impian nak membeli my new gadget bakal terlaksana. Alhamdulillah, tengah kepingin nak new gadget, muncul pulak $durian runtuh$ semalam. So, now tgh survey which is the best brand, best quality & at the same time of course best price! Any idea?

At the moment yg best price aku jumpa is this oven, RM1489 from HSL

Kes Ubat

Mawaddah dah berumur 3 bulan. Jadi, dah tiba masa untuk dapat suntikan imunisasi yg seterusnya. Asalnya kami nak pergi last Saturday but when we arrived the clinic, dah tutup pulak. Kemudian, kami ke klinik panel semula pada Ahad petang. Dr tak berikan suntikan sebab Mawaddah selsema. Dr periksa juga keadaan perutnya & dapati ada angi. Dr beri 2 jenis ubat for flu & colic. Lepas kasi ubat colic, baru kami perasan statement from the box “ not to be given for infants under 6 months”. Hai , takkan Dr tak perasan kot. Malam tersebut Mawaddah dek asyik bangun & merengek kalau tak dapat “toy” mama dia. Aku? Mmg letey giler dek asyik kene suakan toy dia.

Pagi kepala dah naik stress. Lepas je solat subuh dia dah start merengek. Bila peluk diam.  Kebetulan hari tu aku cuti. Jadi, dapatla jaga Mawaddah. Bila dah lama berpeluk, berdukung & berkasih dengan toy..aku dah tak larat, jadi cuba nak tidurkan dalam buaian. Bila masuk buaian dia mengamuk ntah apesal. Menjerit2 dalam tangisan. Cuba pula tidurkan atas tilam , pon mengamuk. Pendek kata, mmg dia menangis & mengamuk kalau terlepas dari genggaman Mamanya. Aku dah naik ltey. Semua benda dah tak dapat nak buat. Rumah mmg dah bersepah dek tak dapat nak kemas. Tangisannya yg luar biasa membuat aku bertambah risau. Mawaddah langsung tak tidur hari tu. Kronik betul. Hubby pon risau & terpaksa balik ke rumah. Petang tu kami terus ke klinik panel yg lain untuk minta pandangan Dr. Alhamdulillah, tiada demam, tiada sakit telingan, tiada sakit tekak. Cuma colic. Tu pon sebab banyak menangis. Terkejut juga bila Dr periksa rupa-rupanya Mawaddah dah dapat suntikan 3 bulan semasa dia berumur 2 bulan. Mistake again??? Whatever, the things dah lepas and everything is okay. Jadi 2 bulan ini tiada suntikan diperlukan.

Kami pasti Mawaddah meragam mungkin disebabkan ubat colic tu. Lepas balik klinik dia terus meragam sampai malam. Malam, aku cuba tidurkan di atas tilam. Bila aku alihkannya dari her toy tu, dia terus je terjaga & mengamuk. Ltey betul rasanya. Dan akhirnya lebih hampir 3 jam tempoh percubaan , misi menidurkannya berjaya. Bayangkan hari tersebut she woke up at 5.30am and sleep at 10pm. For me, it’s too cronic for a 3 months baby. The next day, alhamdulillah she already recovered and the babysitter said she could sleep during the day.

We as parents need to alert with all medicine given by Doctor. Kadang2 Dr sendiri tak perasan atau mmg kesilapan oleh pembantu klinik tu.

Great news! Outstation to Kuching is postponed to later date! Yahoo!

wish lists

1. Oven


Budget within 1k+-.

2. Mixer

To redeem using Maybank Treatpoints. Current point is 13k. Need 1.1k point to achieve 14.1k. End redemption date:End of Aug 06. Ish , sempat ke tak ni?


3. Breadmaker

No budget at the moment. Angan-angan mat jenin cukup le

My flu is getting worse, hidung dah merah, hidung dah pedih. Tapi, paling kesian kat Mawaddah yang terpaksa merasa tempiasnya. Her flu also getting worse. Berjangkit daripada Mamanya. Abang Mus’ab pon dah merasa tempiasnya.

Emm, hubby masih belum mohon cuti seminggu. Tak pasti lulus ke idak..subject to boss approval. Alahai sape yg konfem nk ikut pi Kuching ni.

It has been a month since I’ve been start working. Alhamdulillah, Allah gave the chance for me to breastfeed Mawaddah exclusively even though I’m working. Current job is actually less hectic as before as we have 3 execs in the same unit. We help each other. I have time to express my BM. I took 3 times/day at the office.

About Mawaddah, she will turn 3 months tomorrow! I noticed that she love to suck her thumb. Always sucking her thumb whenever we put her lying on the bed. Mus’ab also seem more mature as time goes by. He will help buaikan her sister and also sing a song that I can’t understand. He also understands my instruction that could help me a lot. Eg: “Mus’ab, tolong amikkan bantal adik kat sana”. He will take the pillow and gave it to me. Mus’ab pon dah pandai ampaikan tuala dia & adik.

Nevertheless, he also likes to do several actions that could harm his sister. Whenever Mama & Ayah is not around, he will play kuda-kuda with Mawaddah. Bahaya beb! Ngan mama & ayah takpe la but not with adik! Since the incident, we have to be more alert. Hai..macam2 gelagat abang sorang ni. He also likes to hug Mawaddah. Bukannya pandai, tapi buat2 pandai. He also likes to share his food with Adik. Hish, adik tu kecil lagi , mana boleh makan. In return, he assumed Adik also like to share her food. What left in the bottle, Mus’ab will grasps and drink it. Amazing, he loves to drink my BM. Some people said, budak dah besar sket mana nak minum balik susu badan. Lagi2 dah bercerai lama. Sejak 4.5 months

I finally get the ad-hoc babysitter. Most eligible and trustworthy person, My Dearest Hubby!! He agreed to baby-sit our two kids during my outstation to Kuching.
Kesiannya abang kene jaga 2 kids at the hotel. Tak dapat nak bayangkan cemane.

Ad-hoc babysitter

Mengikut jadual, tugasan luar pejabat Mama Julai ini akan mengambil masa selama 7 hari. Mana mungkin Mama dapat tinggalkan Nur Mawaddah yang masih belum bercerai susu badan. Lagipun dia terlalu kecil untuk ditinggalkan. ( Julai nanti baru berusia 4 bulan).

Rasanya memang tiada cara lain. We need an ad-hoc babysitter to join Mama’s outstation at Kuching next month.

Kriteria:
Jujur
Amanah
Sayangkan kids
Asas agama
Mempunyai pengalaman menjaga bayi

Bidang tugas:
Menjaga Nur Mawaddah di siang hari (termasuk: mandikan, susukan, tukarkan lampin & yg seangkatan dengannya)

Faedah:
Tambang flight, penginapan & makanan ditanggung sepenuhnya
Elaun menjaga bayi belum diputuskan lagi

Tempoh:
9 – 15 Julai 06

Bicara Ibu

Bercerita pasal Mawaddah, sekembali Mama dari ofis on last Friday, Mama dapati Mawaddah dah tak demam lagi. Tapi malamnya Mawaddah banyak kali bangun dan meragam. Pelik kami sbb bila rasa badannya dah tak panas.

Pagi Sabtu, semasa nak mandikannya, Mama perasan badan Mawaddah ada naik bintik2 merah..paling jelas sekali kat bahagian muka. Pelik lagi. Apa dah jadi ni? Takkan demam campak kot. For confirmation, kami pon segera ke klinik. Dr sahkan dia kene campak air @ measles Jadi, setiap kali mandi kami mandikan guna air daun semambu untuk hilangkan miang.

Ahad pagi, kami dapati the rash dah berkurangan. Pelik lagi. Takkan kejap sangat kene campak. Kami minta pendapat kakak ipar yang kebetulan datang menziarahi kami. Dia kata mungkin juga boleh jadi skin rash kerana kulit alah /bertindakbalas pada ubat. Yang pasti dia kelihatan semakin sihat dan siang harinya tak meragam pon.

Hari ini Mama minta juga Ayah amik UL untuk jaga Mawaddah. Biar anak Mama sihat betol2 baru leh pass kat babysitter. Tak sabar nak jumpa Mawaddah & Ayah petang ni. :) Thanks Ayah for taking care of our Mawaddah.

Lesson of the day:
Tiada yang lain boleh gantikan kebahagiaan & kegembiraan seorang ibu selain berada di sisi anak & suami tersayang ;)

Sayangku Mawaddah, semoga cepat sembuh

Maafkan mama sayang. Hari ini mama tak dapat nak temankan sayang. Bukan mama tak kesian kat sayang. Dan bukan mama tak mahu ambil cuti kecemasan lagi. Tapi mama perlu ke pejabat kerana ada laporan penting yang perlu dihantar ke pihak pengurusan. Mama tahu ini kali pertama sayang kene demam sejak dilahirkan. Mama harap sayang tabah. Mama memang nampak yang sayang tabah. Sayang tak banyak nangis, tapi nak banyak kali bertenggek kat ‘toy’ sayang tu. Mama harap sayang puas hati semalam sebab mama dapat temankan sayang yang demam. Nasib baik ada kawan yang boleh gantikan kerja mama semalam. Semoga anak mama cepat sembuh. Tak sabar nak jumpa sayang petang nanti.

He's now 2 years old!

Happy birthday to you

Happy birthday to you

Happy birthday to Mus'ab

Happy birthday to you

3 days before the big brother's birthday

About the new babysitter, we haven’t found the better one. So, we have decided for not getting it. Hubby said the current sitter is OK actually, it’s only me that too worried. I think it’s normal kot..women are given 9 nafsu & 1 akal. That’s why we are usually emotional. I have to thanks my officemate who borrow me with this fantastic book title “ Jangan bersedih”. I just read about few pages since Monday but it really gives me peace and calmness. The book is quite thick. I already informed her that I’ll be taking quite long time to finish it since my time mostly spend with family especially the little baby. Hubby also enjoys reading it.

Expressing BM in the office so far not very challenging, as I don’t have to go outstation at the moment. So, the milk supply for the whole working day is still enough. I think my bosses understand and also support me. They said breastfed baby would have higher IQ & healthy body. I did ask their (small & big boss) permission to going home early last week, as I need to feed my baby when our monthly mgt meeting dragged until after office hour. The meeting was running till 8pm but I went home at 7pm. Luckily, that day I’ve left one bottle for any emergency case so that Hubby can feed the baby while waiting the mom to arrive. I think the room I used to express BM is not very suitable. The room used by women as surau and as table tennis court after 5.30pm by men. Sometimes cleaners also get into the room to clean up or get some tools. I occasionally met few women and men inside or in front of the room. I’m not comfortable with the way they look at me. Maybe they are wondering what am I doing in the room and what stuff did I bring along. My pump set & the bag is actually not very small but I’m OK with that. I think I should not be ashamed with that. Let other people think what they like to be ..as long as my baby & I live happily ever after